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4.4 Childhood Attachment Experiences
The experience that may contributed to my general personal attachment style: preoccupied, is when I was dating this one person in high school and I cared very much about him and I thought he did. As time goes, it turned out that he never cared about me, he just wanted to get in my pant so he would say or do anything to get me to say yes. That is when I couldn't trust guys anymore or wanting to get close because I didn't want to get hurt. That is most common experiences for preoccupied women. -
1.1 The Beginning
I believe this is the date I became an adult because I graduated from high school on this date. Graduating from high school, to me, means I am officially on my own and I am responsible enough to make my own decisions because I choose Gallaudet. I choose the path after high school and I did not have my parents, teachers, or any kind of authorities to make that decision for me. This event is one of social changes: normative age-graded influence; graduation is one of those influences. -
4.1 Young Adult Role Transition
I expected to transition into the role of young adult when I first move into my dorm at my college and knowing that the first day of being on my own in other state away from home. It is practically a new chapter and first chapter of my adulthood. I have experienced ups and downs with areas in financial situations, friends situation, love/initimate situations, etc. I expected to experience more even though I don't want to because I, at 20, had it enough. I know life has more in the store for me. -
7.3 Major Life Event
My dad passed away shortly after being releasded off life support after cardiac arrest. I was very numb and shocked and I cope it using emotion-focused coping where I try to ameliorate the negative emotions. I kept going to school and kept going in my life and avoid social coping and I refused to talk about it with anyone except few friends and shortly after I stopped. It kind of went away after a while until now I am seeking from help from therapist to make sure my grievance has passed. -
6.3 - Intimacy
I have started this stage last year when I was 19 and I found someone who I have became very close with and very intimitated. From the interviews videos I have seen, those people have been through intimacy as around my age and some in high school where they found the love of their lives. Intimacy focus on finding someone and building intimate relationship and risk the immersion of self in a sense of we. -
2.1 Oxidate Damage
The intervention should be taken on place on birthday of 20th of year so my birthday is Septemeber 18. I turned 20 on September 18, 2015. Oxidate damage is something that cause aging to speed up such as sunlight. Our body will get tired of replacing skin that have been damaged by sun as we age so less it replaces damaged skin, the more it is likely to have a cancer. Cancer speeds up the time to the death. The intervention should be taken by anti-oxidants substances such as vitamins and supplment -
2.3 My current healty lifestyle
After taking the quiz, I evaluate my answers and I think I had a pretty good and healthy lifestyle because I do not smoke and drink occasionally. I exercise more than 150 minutes a week, and drink a lot of water. What I want to change is adding more servings of fruits and vegetables. I realized I do not eat enough fruits or vegetables. -
4.3 Adult Attachment Style
Based on the quiz I took, my general attachment style is preoccupied. According to the textbook preoccupied means wanting to be completely emotionally intimate with others but often find others reluctant to get as close as I would like. I am also uncomfortable being without close relationships, but I sometimes worry that others don't value me as much as I value them." This description, I belive, fits me perfectly. That also affects my relationsihps because I am always afraid to go "too far". -
7.1 Fowler
I believe I fit in the stage, individuative-reflective faith, where I have already reached at the position that I reexamine my life and took a whole new responsibilties in living on my own. I am using my mistakes to gain new responsibilities that I have to take and reexamine the groups I have been in. I realize that I prefer the different kinds of group that I feel more of myself. I have always been sensitive to other people's opinons of me and now I don't really careanymoreandocusonmyhappiness -
6.1 My RISASEC type
I scored the highest in social. According to the textbook, social are people helpers who like to work with people informing, enlightening, helping, training, developing, or curing them. DIslike machinery and physical exertion. Traits of those kind of people: cooperative, understanding, helpful, tactful, sociable, and ethical. I believe those traits do correspond to my personality. This is consistent with the job I am purusing: family/ marriage/ couple therapist. -
6.2 Super's Stages
I believe at this age (26) when I am settled in my job and I would be in this stage of Super's: Establishment where I can build my reputation and relationship with agency I will be working under or already have my own private practice at the time. In this stage, it is where people between 25-44 who are in stablize in a job, consolidate job or recieve an advance in a job. In other words, it is where people are on path of establishing their career and settle down with their job. -
4.2 Older Adult Role Transition
I expected to transit into older adult role when I get marry becuase that is a new chapter in adulthood where I begin my life with someone and share a life with and plan to begin a family. I hope to marry by the time I am 27; however, that is unpredictable because anything can happen. Life can surprise us all sometimes. -
6.4 - Autonomous
I believe I will reach this stage when I hit 35 because by the time, I hope to have a family and a home that we plan to settle in for the rest of our lives. This stage is where we begin to see multifaceted nature of the world, not just the good and the bad. Some situations do not have the simple answers or the best answer and the ability to see one's own life in the context of wider social concerns. -
7.2 Transitions
Conjunctive faith- I am not at this stage yet becuase I haven't have found my balance in my mind and emotions. My emotions have been on a roller coaster for past two years and everything have been spirialing out of control. I am also still figuring how to accept some truths that I do not want to accept. I am still learning new ideas and truths about myself and other people and especially in the world. -
2.4 Potential consquences of my lifestyle
I believe my potential consquences when I turn 50 is pretty good. I doubt I will have a cancer, diabetes, or any heart-related disease. I take care of myself well; however, would that remain the rest of my life? I hope so. :) -
3.1 Working Memory
My memory I would assume start to decline when I turn 55 because I doubt my memory would work well as my memory is currently. I am already starting to forget things and struggles to remember some of memories that may have significant meaning in my life. I am sure my semantic memory would be still midly strong when I turn 55 becuase I am exposed to language and new information everyday. However, my episodic memory may not be the strongest area because I would have to recall an event or memory. -
2.2 Genetic Limits
I believe the intervention of this theory should be taken when I am 65 because it is the time to age. the replicative senscene aka Hayflick limit is when the cells stops dividing and telomeres which is repeating DNA are shorter in length as we age. 65 years of age is perfect age for body to start aging and prepare for the death. -
3.2 Attention
I believe my attention would be still very strong becuase as a deaf person, I use my eyes everyday and I am able to catch things more precisely and quicker than most of hearing people can. I believe my attention would last well up until when I am 70 and I may get tired of paying attention to details that may not make an impact or mean anything to me. -
8.1 The End
Marissa May Givens, 79, resided in Miami of Florida was survived by her two children; Kazaam and his wife, Jessica and Kelly and her husband, Douglas, and eight grandchildren; Bobby, John, Cassandra, Lillian, Timothy, Grace, Kelly, and Morris. Also survived by many nieces and nephews and cousins. Born in Boston, Masschausetts on September 18, 1995, a daughter of late Daniel and Laurie McBride. She was educated in Framingham and graduate of Framingham of private charter deaf school, The Learnin
